Jake Daniels.Photo: Mark Cosgrove/News Images/Sipa via AP
Jake Daniels is kicking off his professional soccer career with some big news.
The Blackpool FC player, 17, came out as gay on Monday in astatement, becoming the U.K.’s first active openly gay soccer pro since the late Justin Fashanu came out nearly 32 years ago in 1990.
“I’ve been hiding the real me and who I really am,” Daniels wrote. ‘I’ve known my whole life that I’m gay, and I now feel that I’m ready to come out and be myself."
Daniels debuted with Blackpool FC earlier this month, after coming off the Blackpool youth team.
The teenager also credited his family, his agent and his Blackpool teammates with helping him embrace his truth, as well as pro-LGBTQ nonprofitStonewall.
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“There are people out there in the same space as me that may not feel comfortable revealing their sexuality. I just want to tell them that you don’t have to change who you are, or how you should be, just to fit in,” Daniels added. “You being you, and being happy, is what matters most.”
The Lancashire native wrote in an essay forSky Sportsthat it was a “weight off the shoulders” and a “massive relief” telling his mom and sister, as he’d known he was gay since he was 5 or 6. “So it’s been a long time that I have been living with the lie,” Daniels said.
“At that age you don’t really think that football and being gay doesn’t mix. You just think, ‘One day, when I’m older I’ll get a girlfriend and I will change and it will be fine,'” he added. “But as you get older you realize you can’t just change. It doesn’t work like that.”
He noted that he even considered waiting until his retirement to come out, as no other active U.K. men’s player is currently out (Several women’s players are part of the LGBTQ community. Former Aston Villa player Thomas Hitzlspergercame outin 2014 and Hull City youth alum Thomas Beattiecame outin 2020, but they were both retired at the time).
“I knew that would lead to a long time of lying and not being able to be myself or lead the life that I want to,” Daniels wrote.
Elsewhere in his piece, Daniels said he’s preparing himself for the inevitable backlash and homophobic responses.
“It’s an easy thing for people to target,” he admitted. “The way I see it is that I am playing football and they are shouting stuff at me, but they are paying to watch me play football and I am living my life and making money from it. So shout what you want, it’s not going to make a difference.”
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“I won’t stop people from saying that stuff, I just need to learn how to not let it affect me,” Daniels added.
source: people.com
